A Hard Thing To Relate To
Let me tell you about the time I decided to run my first ultramarathon. 50 kilometers. Never done anything like it before. But something about the sheer audacity of the challenge pulled me in. I like hard things. They sharpen my focus and push me beyond my comfort zone. And the best part? That moment when you're wrestling with the "hard," and suddenly, it doesn't seem so daunting anymore.
That's what I'm talking about: the race, the adventure, the journey. It's rarely about the finish line for me. It's about the grit, the sweat, the "oh-crap-what-have-I-gotten-myself-into" moments along the way.
You see those videos, "I ran a marathon without training," or "Triathlon hacks – no training required"? Yeah, those make me cringe. Why rob yourself of the journey? The struggle is where the magic happens. (Okay, I confess, sometimes I watch those videos hoping they'll trip and faceplant. Schadenfreude, maybe?)
This whole "hard things" thing was on my mind after watching Casey Neistat's video (check it out!). He nailed it, talking about his insane marathon time – 2:37:54! A testament to dedication and, let's be real, some awesome Brooks Glycerin Max shoes.
"Real toughness is experiencing discomfort or distress, leaning in, paying attention, and creating space to take thoughtful action..." ― Steve Magness, Do Hard Things
Magness hit the nail on the head. It's not just about physical strength; it's about mental resilience and self-discovery. Of course, having a coach or a supportive community helps. I know I wouldn't be where I am without my community.
That's why I started the "My Journey" series on TriNerds. To showcase everyday heroes, the 9-to-5ers who chase their passions and defy expectations. These are the people who embrace the "hard things," whether it's conquering a triathlon or facing a personal challenge head-on.
Now, I know what you might be thinking: "hard things" equal David Goggins screaming at you to do more burpees. But it doesn't have to be that way. "Hard" is personal. It's about pushing your own boundaries, whatever those may be.
Take me, for example. Before my first Ironman, I was fueled by donuts and Star Trek reruns, not exactly the picture of athleticism. My training started small, with Walmart running shoes and whatever activewear I could find. Forget the fancy gear; the real challenge was showing up day after day, juggling family and work, and pushing through the mental barriers.
It was a journey of self-discovery, for me and my wife. She'd never seen me so dedicated to something, and we had to navigate this new territory together.
Think of "hard things" as the delicious filling in a sandwich. The more you pack in, the richer the experience. And once you've tasted that "hard things" sandwich, you'll crave another. Maybe you take a break, recharge, but that hunger for challenge always returns.
I've interviewed so many incredible people for "My Journey," each with their own "hard things" story. It's inspiring to see how these challenges shape us, make us stronger, and ultimately, enrich our lives.
So, here's my challenge to you: embrace the hard things. Don't shy away from the struggle. Follow your heart, push your limits, and discover the incredible strength within you. You might surprise yourself.
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